Confirm tarikh!

Tarikh telah konfem oke.

ye, telah konfem.

Jangan sesiapa kat taman aku tu berani nak amik2 tarikh ni.
31 January 2010.
Ahad.
ulangan, telah konfem.
'hiks. sangat suker ^-^

Sebabnya, aku dah book the wedding card semalam.
ye, telah book kad walaupun takde tarikh lagi.
cam gile kemaruk, kan.
Balik tu baru la call Abah untuk mengconfirmkan tarikh.

oh~ ceritanya begini.
Semalam saja-saja jalan ke Danga Bay.
Kadkahwinku.com.
Kononnya mau mensurvey bunting cantik di sana.
Belek sana belek sini, haih, ada pulak la kad menepati citarasa.
Murahan oke.
14.5 inch x 6.5 inch (3 fold).
Plus photo.
Free ribbons and the envelope have the same design with the card.
Yang paling best, the price is much less than what we expected!

Memang at first cadangnya mau tempah dari his cousin saja.
Tapi sebab wajah kad tu dah melekat dalam fikiran aku, jadinya...

ye, lepas ke Danga Bay tu kan, kami terus ke rumah nenek si dia.
Then ke JJ Bukit Indah.
Tapi still wajah kad yang aku nampak kat Danga Bay tu takmo keluar dari kepala otak aku jugak. En Hubby pun dah pening dengar puji-pujian melampau pasal kad tu so dia ajak la kami ke sana semula untuk upacara membooking.

'wawawa sangat suker ^-^

Date (again and again!)

waaa I NEED A DATE!
ye. tarikh telah ditukar lagi.
To tell you the truth, I just don't care anymore tarikh tu best ke tak.
I just want a fixed date.

Teringat dulu-dulu, Sue pernah cerita kat aku tentang kesusahan menlangsungkan majlis perkahwinan. Dia cakap, rasa macam nak suruh mak bapak dia contact sendiri mak bapak Wan sebab susah sangat jadi orang tengah ni.

Waktu tu aku senyum je sebab hati cakap, my wedding would be smooth sailing sebab rasanya my parents tak cerewet sangat macam parents Sue.

Tapi arini, bila rewind balik kata-kata Sue, hati cakap, aduuuuiii!
Time Abah cakap nak buat majlis bulan 1, perasaan adalah 'haih!'
Aritu ramai yang tanak bulan Muharam or Safar.
Tu yang kami pilih 20/2/2010.
But then, we can't do it on the said date or anyday in February coz like Sab, my sis - Angah, is also due for maternity. Dia di Miri, Sarawak and kalau dah 9 bulan kan dah tak boleh nak fly lagi.

So, 3 months to go and I haven't prepared anything!
huwaaa!

Betul, lah.
Nak menlangsungkan perkahwinan ni banyak sangat remehnye.
Bukan setakat duit ringgit dan pemilihan barang, tapi banyak sangat hati yang nak kena jaga. Lebih-lebih lagi bila membabitkan dua family ni.
Kecik hati, marah, nak merajuk, terasa, nak mengamuk, sedeh, nak nangih semua ada.

haih. Biar la cepat-cepat setel nihhh.

and the Date again...

Dulu-dulu kan, plan kami adalah mau kawin di bulan 12.
12/12/2009 to be exact.

Sadly, my Atuk tak bagi coz he said, tak elok adik-beradik kawin tahun yg sama. My sis's wedding is on 6/6/2009, and I was engaged on the same date.

Sekarang aku fikir, alhamdulillah... memang ada hikmahnya kami tak buat bln 12 tu. Agaknya kalau betul'lah jadi tarikh tu mesti aku dah kelam-kabut yang dasat sekarang ni kan.

Furthermore, my boss akan mengerjakan Haji for nearly 2 mths and continue outstation di Qatar selama 3 bulan. I'm gonna be in-charge for the whole 5 months so tak mungkin la dapat bercuti panjang untuk kawin nanti dengan tons and tons of work menanti di opis.

Then, our 2nd plan is to get married on 1st January 2009.
01/01/2010.
'kan tarikh yang sangat cantik tu... dan tahun yang berlainan juger...

Tapi, my Abah pulak tak bagi.
He said, tak elok kawin bulan Muharram.
so... oke.
Walaupun agak terkilan tapi nak buat macam mana, kan.
I am an obedient child T_T

And then, 14th February 2010.
As per my previous entry, maybe it has to be changed again due to bulan Safar.
Actually aku bukan nak sangat pun tarikh Valentine's Day tu.
'gile mahal oke bunga

Any date, whichever, whatever, is fine with me.
Cuma aku risau my dear hubby tak ingat tarikh anniversary kami nanti.
That's why I have to choose the easiest date to be remembered for the next hundred years.

'betul tak?

Tapi kan selama ni aku dah paksa dia ingat semua tarikh penting kami.
So rasanya tak timbul masalah la kalau aku nak pilih tarikh apa pun kan...

So I think 20/02/2010 pun oke jugek kan?
'kan kan?

But my sis is going to give birth on 14/03/2010.
Memang tengah nunggu hari la time tu so boleh ke dia nak fly jauh-jauh dari Miri ke sini nanti?

haih haih.

Change of date!

Minggu lepas, kami balik kampung.
Sebab cuti Awal Ramadhan, kan.
Aku di Ptn dan dia di BP.
Dari TR pukul 8 mlm and sampai di JB around 9.30 pm.
Packing2 barang and dekat pukul 12 la baru sampai di Ptn.
My parents dah tertido so dia terus la balik ke BP.
Pukul 4 pg my mum kejut sahur.
Dia cakap, "laa mak ingatkan ZZ tidur sini sebab tu mak masak banyak nih.."

"tak la, dia dah janji dengan his mom nak sahur kat sana."

"mak dia tau ke dia nak balik arini?"

"tau..."

"oh, patutlah."

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ye, sebabnya ZZ memang selalu tidur rumah tiap kali ngantar aku balik ke sini.
The next day baru dia balik rumah dia.
Tapi kali ini dia terus balik ke BP sebab nak sahur dengan his family.
Agaknya sebab ini kali terakhir bersahur dengan family sebagai orang bujang kot ^-^

haish mak aku nih.
Belum jadi menantu lagi dah berebut nak sahur umah mana.
Anak dia ni balik takde special apa-apa pon.
Kot kalau bakal menantu dia tu balik fuh~ mengalahkan anak sendiri oke.

jeles nih.

My hubby memang dah biasa pun dengan my family.
A few months back, sejak aku kenalkan dia dengan my family, memang apa-apa event dalam family aku pun mesti dia ada sama.
Macam waktu mau ngecat-ngecat rumah baru kami beberapa bulan lalu.
And waktu ngantar my sis untuk Majlis Bertandang di Ipoh 2 months ago.
Dan juga waktu my brother's engagement kat Kuala Selangor last few weeks.
Semuanya dia ikut.
Siap tidur rumah lagi ha beberapa hari.

oh ye.
Maybe, our wedding date has to be changed again.
From 14th February to 20th February.
My dad doesn't really agree with the 14th.
Sebabnya tarikh itu masih di bulan Safar.

'what is wrong with Safar anyway?

haihhh!

but it is still a maybe.
just maybe T_T

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I was driving back from Johor Specialist when he texted me.

"cyg, hubby cintakan cyg.
hubby syukur dpt isteri mcm cyg...
terlalu byk sebenarnya yg hubby nak ckp tentang untungnya dapat isteri mcm cyg tapi biarlah hubby seorang je yg tau."

Thank you dear.
Walaupun aku tgh sakit-sakit tu tapi rasa sangat gembira bila si dia hargai apa yang kita dah buat.

Luv yuh hubby!

1 or 2 Days?

Sangat appreciate oke pada kamu2 yang mengkomen itu.
Yani, PrincessHani, MyRule, Cik Lady Angel, Fara, UpcomingBigDay, MsHai, Cikin, Intanz, Dayu and SabSabby.

Ulang-ulang tau aku baca sebab nak tau mana yang terbaik untuk majlis kami nanti. Thanks yer everyone ^-^

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On first thought, I prefer to have reception and solemnization dalam dua hari yang berlainan.

Kerana, berkahwin adalah sekali seumur hidup.
And u live only once.
Takpelah berbelanja lebih untuk hari bersejarah tu kan.

But on 2nd thought, 1 day seems to be the best choice after all.

My sis spent around 40K for her wedding last month.
Itupun time bunga murah.
14 February is Valentine's Day oke.
Tak mungkin la jumpa bunga yang murahan neh!
And kalau betul mau buat majlis dalam 2 hari, of course la perbelanjaan akan lebih kurang amount tu jugak, kan.

I used to work in Finance.
And I think, to spend 40K for my wedding is ridiculous!
I could buy lots of thing with 40 grand oke.
Tons of handbag.
Travel around the world.
*piff*

So, one day it is.
Save money.
Save lotsss of money.
and penat pun sehari jek.
I'm gonna miss some of those precious moments though, sebab tergesa-gesa and mesti tak sempat mau nikmati semua, kan.

but, what the heck!
I'm gonna have a good photographer.
And a good videographer.
That's mandatory.
So I can enjoy the moments later.

My friend, who is a doctor, spent 40 cents for her wedding card.
Another friend, who is an assistant manager, spent less than 1 ringgit for her doorgift including the souvenir bag. And she got a great honeymoon at the Alps. Heidi. oh my~

So, pedulik la apa orang nak cakap pun kan.
It is your wedding anyway.

*tapi, bole ke Hubby nak datang rumah aku pukul 9 pagi tuh? haih.


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yey! suda ketemu photographer idaman ^-^

Adzrin from TRZphoto.

weeee~

p/s : thanks to Dayu ;p

The Date

12/12/2009 is out.
coz family and friends objected on having 2 weddings in the same year.
*my sis got married on 6/6/2009 aritu... remember?

1/1/2010 is also out.
coz family and friends again objected on having solemnization dalam bulan Muharam. *hape ntah faedah ngikut-ngikut adat neh T_T

So... 14/2/2010 it is.
or maybe 13/2/2009 (Solemnization) & 14/2/2010 (Reception).
either one.
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.
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so, what are the pros and cons of having my solemnization and reception on the same day eh?

THE BAD :
1) Sangat menat oke!
--> very tergesa-gesa sebab pagi nikah, tengahari sanding.

3) Tak sempat nak posing-posing sakan time nikah tu...
--> baju nikah aku dapat pakai kejap je... pastu dah nak kena tukar baju sanding. kalo nikah hari lain-lain, aku bole pakai baju tu sehari suntuk ^-^

4) Tak sempat nak buat Keluarga Sakinah and takleh nak nikah kat masjid
--> sebab pukul 10.30 pg orang dah start datang untuk kenduri. so my parents kompem takleh lama-lama kat masjid sebab diorang nak sambut tetamu.

5) Aku tak cukup tido
--> sebab kena mangun awal sebab nak mekap untuk nikah awal pagi!

6) Photographer tetap dtg utk 2 ari
--> sbb satu ari lagi untuk outdoor shoot so takleh save pon kat situ T_T


THE GOOD :
1) Save cost
--> takyah la nak buat kenduri 2 kali. takyah nak sediakan souvenir utk 2 hari. so we can spend more on our honeymoon shopping and household things.
*wink wink*

2) Dapat tarikh yg best utk nikah
--> 14/2 - Valentine's Day. walopun aku tak celebrate benda tu tapi kan sume orang ingat. yippie!

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uwaaa kepala aku takleh pikir dah nih.
'comments anyone?